NGO lectures student on rape
NGO lectures student on rape, sexual abuse. The Soul Bliss Foundation, a non-governmental organization, educated some pupils in Lagos State on rape and sexual abuse on Tuesday through a program titled “War Against Rape and Sexual Abuse.”
Ms Joan Linda, the NGO’s founder, stated that the event was a follow-up to the “My Virginity, My Pride” conference.
According to Linda, an educator, the program is an annual event intended at educating girls about sex, rape, and other forms of sexual abuse, as most girls become pregnant out of wedlock.
She claimed she had been raped and that the pain, sadness, and shame she experienced had stayed with her.
She stated that she founded the NGO to be a voice for victims and that the project had generated positive benefits, such as reducing the suicidal tendencies of several rape victims she met.
She stated that sexual harassment occurs frequently in schools and that many schools cover it up.
Mr. Kenneth Chukwuemeka, a guest speaker, stated that one out of every four ladies in Nigeria has experienced some type of violence.
Chukwuemeka further stated that one in every ten boys has experienced some type of sexual violence/molestation at the hands of a senior or adult in their lifetime.
According to him, the subject under discussion is delicate and should be treated as such.
He described how a maid who lived in his compound bothered him when he was nine years old and the maid was seventeen.
“I couldn’t tell anyone because she threatened to kill me if I did,” he explained.
He suggested that parents teach their children sex education as a means to prevent sexual abuse.
He also urged pupils to report any negative messages they received to higher authorities.
He also encouraged students to ask clarifying questions, learn from the experiences of others, and share their own sexual harassment stories.
Mrs Esther Anuma, another guest speaker, said, “Students, your body is your friend.” Keep it safe.”
Anuma, who reminded parents that they were caregivers, told how her father was there for her when she was raped and became pregnant at the age of 16.
She claimed that life was a severe test that such a person would fail if not adequately prepared for.
She reminded kids to act responsibly since what they do today will be remembered later.
She reminded ladies to always dress appropriately.
“I encourage females to dress decently because it attracts men.” What men see moves them, while what women feel moves them.
“Be bold in what you’re doing,” she said.
She counseled the pupils to remain optimistic and to have good ideas, because word of mouth may shape one’s destiny.
“Say nice things about yourself, and they will come true,” she said.
The distribution of medals to students who participated in an essay writing competition organized by the NGO was the highlight of the seminar.
(NAN)